Popular people make it look so easy. They walk into a room and make friends with no apparent effort. How do they do it?
What are their secrets to enjoying a great conversation with anyone they meet? How can we copy them?
There are conversation secrets popular people take for granted. And if you know their mindset and conversation strategies you`ll have people eating out of your hand too. Its a question of strategy - use their strategy and you`ll get similar results even if you found it difficult or frustrating in the past to get a conversation going.
How Popular People Make Conversation Look So Easy
I first discovered this in the summer of 1989 in Hyannis, Cape Cod. It was a hot, lazy summer and I was enjoying the beach with new friends. One of my friends, Craig, happens to be one of these naturally gifted people.
You know the kind. Everywhere he goes people are happy to see him. His phone is always ringing and he is a popular guy around town. His friends and family respect him and enjoy his company. He makes it look so easy it used to make me mad!
That summer I figured out the conversation making formula my popular friend was using. And over the years when I`ve met popular people I have made a point of uncovering their secrets. What`s fascinating is that all popular people have stumbled upon the same fundamental formula.
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